This week started off well. And I was so excited that it was last week into second trimester. Over the internet I saw at many sites that few count third trimester from 27th week. But I kept in to 28th.

I kept thinking that how time has come near for our little one to come into this world and how I have grown to be a mother. I know things change as you feel mature and older but if I think from this point that I am 22 and I still have some undone tasks and aims to be done and really prayed to my Lord that everything is good when she is born me and my hubby are able to do things apart from parent-hood.

Though it is very much true that I started to have Goosebumps regarding delivery being so near. It was so hard to believe that in two months by Grace of God I will be in 9th month and anytime she would come then. It seemed too scary when I thought of labor room. But I have to make up my mind as it won’t work like this.

There was another thing which was that I had gained really gained and now my tummy is really visible. And also I had gained bit on my cheeks as well as thighs and upper arms. And breasts felt really heavy and few times they leaked and I felt so weird but yes then it became normal and it was just twice I think and happened during sleep.

Oh and the baby movements were amazing by Grace of God. I was very thankful that she was doing great but then it has been painful too at times and made me too frustrated at times. I did not feel depressed during any time but yes I did go through loosing temper over certain things and that has been only few times and I tried my best to control my mood swings and eat well so that the baby stays healthy.

Well, pregnancy is tough but it is not tough. I am still having vomits and I have really worry some period during pregnancy but I would say that it is people who make it difficult for you and if one tries to make it good it would be good then. Thus, this week was good AND now i would be writing for last trimester.

This week started off well and it was exciting that I was going to enter my third trimester soon, by Grace of God. Though I would definitely say that it has not been easy as it is tough to have vomits for so long. It gets hard when you are growing big and you have to vomit. Also, the un-balancing of the body also increases. In short pregnancy gets tough but it has its own excitement.

This week I had appointment with my gynecologist as well. And till now I had gained 8 kg meaning 17 pounds. And yes she told me that now it should be slow gain. Maybe this month I gained 4kg because there was a total stoppage to my weight gain in three months. Hardly had I gained 1 kg. And she was very worried I remember. She gave me next appointment after a month and told me I should do HB and GCT tests again. And she told me I should have ultra-sound done. She listened to the heartbeat of the baby. And I was happy that she was doing great. I was relaxed and felt happy that everything has been great till now.

Also, I started to think over having prenatal classes, as they are very helpful. But I only thought that I should try to go but I believe that at times it scares the hell out you and you might not want to go for natural delivery. But at times it makes you really prepared. All depends on the nature I think.

Stretch marks have been on my head since I got pregnant. And the solution to it is to get a good cream. From now on the marks would keep increasing as the tummy grows. And it is very concerning for every mother to be that she is not left with marks over her body as she would be putting on fat on most of her body parts. i would suggest that mother-care would be best option to buy the cream.

On internet about.com showed up interesting news over the development of baby.

Mother:

“While you have been feeling movements for awhile, those other people in your life may not have been able to. Around this time it may become possible for them to begin feeling the baby from the outside. It is a really neat to share the experience with others.
Finding a comfortable position for sleeping is a new task! Between night time wakings to go to the bathroom, to get water or snacks, you need all the sleep you can get.
A body pillow will enable you to support your legs and your growing belly! If you don’t have one, try making use of several regular pillows.

Baby:

Veins are visible through your baby’s skin, although it is quickly changing from transparent to opaque.
Your baby can hear you and those around you. Although we assume that the uterus is a quiet place, the baby has been surrounded by noise for a long time. Things like your heartbeat, digestion, and other body functions are heard by the baby as well as external noises. Now you may feel the baby jump at a sudden noise.
The uterus also allows some light to be seen. So your baby is aware of lightness and darkness. S/he weighs 1 pound 12 ounces (794 grams) and measures 32.5 cms or 12.8 inches total length.

Dad:

If you’re sleeping with a bunch of extra pillows in bed, you may notice that the amount of room available for you has decreased. Some dads choose to sleep elsewhere to avoid disturbances to their sleep, including the many trips to the bathroom she makes each night. This should be discussed together.”

This week was good, by Grace of God. And I was just praying that I enter my third trimester soon. Prayers of elders made me very comfortable and I kept praying to God that everything went well.

This week started and I had a lot of things on mind. I got the list ready for the stuff needed for our little one. It is I think very exciting period for the parents to prepare for their child and do stuff to welcome them. We decided to paint up the room and my hubby did very hard-work in painting it. It looked really cute after pink paint was done and I was so happy that my hubby was doing so much and was really happy by Grace of God. And I was sure that our little one will be very happy in it. And I took pictures so that when she grows she appreciates her daddy and would know that he loves her a lot even when she wasn’t there.

I read the 25 weeks related information on baby center website.

“How your baby’s growing”
Head to heels, your baby now measures about 13 1/2 inches. Her weight is a pound and a half isn’t much more than an average rutabaga, but she’s beginning to exchange her long, lean look for some baby fat. As she does, her wrinkled skin will begin to smooth out and she’ll start to look more and more like a newborn. She’s also growing more hair and if you could see it, you’d now be able to discern its color and texture.

“How is your life changing:”

“Your baby’s not the only one with more hair — your locks may look more full and lustrous than ever. It’s not that you’re growing more hair, but thanks to hormonal changes, the hair that you’d normally shed is sticking around longer than usual. Enjoy the fullness while you can — the extra hair will fall out after you give birth.

You may also notice that you can’t move around as gracefully as before. Unless your caregiver has advised you otherwise, it’s fine to continue to exercise, but follow a few safety rules: Don’t work out when you’re feeling overly tired and stop if you feel any pain, dizziness, or shortness of breath. Don’t lie flat on your back and avoid contact sports as well as any exercise where you’re apt to lose your balance. Be sure to drink plenty of water, and make time for both warm-up and cool-down periods.

When you have your glucose-screening test at 24 to 28 weeks, a second tube of blood may be taken at the same time to check for anemia. If blood tests show that you have iron-deficiency anemia (the most common type of anemia), your caregiver will probably recommend that you take an iron supplement.

Have you started thinking about baby names yet? Choosing a name is an important decision, but it should be a fun one, too. You may want to consider family history (Great Grandpa Zeb), favorite locations (Venice, where you honeymooned), or cherished literary or film characters (Greta, Meg, or Atticus, for example). Check out a couple of baby-name books to help you brainstorm, too.”

After reading it I started thinking and thought that these things applied over me as well. And it made me happy when I read different articles at different stages of my pregnancy. I think every website has something different to tell.

This week I weighed myself and I was shocked to see that I had gained 3 kg in one month almost. And this time it was more than the last months. Which means that in by 7th month I would be gaining 22 pounds in total and I just thought that now there has to be limit to a diet I think. And also I asked my doctor and she said every month from now my weight gain should be 1.5 kg to 2 kg maximum. So I will be following to it. Also, I had concerns regarding start of 9th month if women end up delivering babies and all and I was glad that next week would be my appointment.

I was waiting that I ask my questions and be clear about everything. Also, now in my dreams I was seeing my labor and it really scared me every time I woke up. Thus, this week went off well. Nothing much happened.

The first day I remember when I woke up I was really worried as my doctor had called me to read up the report of FFA test. That day I took my hubby with me because I wanted moral support though I knew nothing would be serious or dangerous I would say that he being there made me more on the thought that nothing would be wrong and even if it would be my hubby will be there. That day he had extreme workload in office and he came with me that we will free in 2 to 3 hours as there is a lot of waiting in hospital. But that day got the worst as it took 6 hours. And it was terrible feeling inside me that because of me his work was neglected. And I had so much guilt that I decided in heart that I will go alone to my doctors whether ultra sound or regular check-up. I just did not want my mother-in-law or my hubby to get tired or something.

Anyway, doctor called us we were the last and he asked me that since when I had this blur vision problem and I told him that I had no idea as I never noticed and my husband did. He saw the reports and said good news there is no problem in the retina. But in order to find the problem we have to do another test. And I was just not comfortable hearing that as I only thought that in pregnancy it would not be right to go under all such things as it creates a stress even if it is 1% why to have it, when things can be delayed.

The next day was the ultra sound and I went doctor said everything is fine in regard to responses of the baby and movements and bones but she said there has been a little problem with a vein the babies brain. It was dilated by 0.5 cm I think but doctor said nothing to worry another ultra sound will be done in two weeks.I was really worried but I got myself in control and decided to discuss next morning with my gynecologist and my hubby was relaxed that nothing would be wrong but I knew one thing that he would never tell me anything as he knows I would worry.

I went through a very strange thing, me and my hubby went to swimming and I am very scared of water and have always been very phobic since childhood. And it was not that deep but yes the level was not that low either. My hubby started teaching me how to wonder in water by keeping the foot on the floor and I decided to do that on my and and after 30 minutes in water I felt relaxed and suddenly my foot slipped and I fell inside water towards front side and it was so sudden that by the time my face went into water and sudden flush of salty water went inside my nose and I could not get back on my feet, and it was weird too but the salty water flushing into my eyes burnt them badly and water went inside my nose made my thinking and my brain blocked. I could not think and I knew no one can drown in this water but it was not that impossible either as God can do anything. And my hubby took me out and held my hands and said
“what happened, water is not that deep sweetheart? It is first time that this has happened with me. It is not possible.” and I felt so embarrassed and I told him I don’t know maybe I got nervous. And he started laughing and the expression he had on his face I just knew that how foolish he thought of me. He laughed maybe it was very stupid thing that happened, but it was not fake. And I know I was not able to balance and was already conscious of being pregnant and being in water. I had tears in my eyes as I thought maybe my hubby thinks it was a joke. I know how scared I was, my heartbeat was really fast and I could feel the tremble of my hands and only I wanted was my hubby’s hug but I never asked him to because it would have embarrassed me further more. And I was lost in thinking that what the hell happened, why did God had to do that to me when I at that point was comfortable in water and it made me so angry on myself that whoever would hear it will laugh at me and would think how foolish I am, but one thing is for sure that no one would ever understand what I went through. And I know it was my mistake too I should have not been so conscious and that I walked on my toe rather then full feet over the floor. I just prayed that my hubby does not feel that how stupid I am and that is all. And one thing I prayed was stupid that, it would have been better that if I would have at least drowned half and got unconscious rather then being so foolish, but then I thought what the hell was I praying and just got normal. But I really do not know how it happened. And I love my hubby that he understood that at times it happens.

Anyway, this week in total I had worst vomits. I was so really sick of them that I just could not believe it that these vomits could pro-long to this extent. It was not a good feeling though. Thus, week ended off well and completely busy and I had no much time for anything as I had started to prepare for babies stuff. And it made my week kind of good. Still bit worried for the ultra sound and that the baby is in best health by Grace of God. And my all hopes are with Him that He will make the wrong things on track.

This week started off well and my hopes regarding my eyes was that nothing would be serious and everything will be great. I had prayed all from my heart that everything goes good and our baby stays healthy and my hubby does not have to go from any sort of much trouble. All I just wished for that my hubby also enjoys the period of my pregnancy.

I believe that my moods in my pregnancy has not been bad at all by Grace of God. By his Grace I have been very calm and peaceful during every up and down. I did had worries but it never affected my moods that I feel irritated and end up having tears in my eyes or anything like that. And I am happy that I was able to have control over my nerves.

Anyway, things were over all good. I went worrying about that baby was kicking a little too much all the time. I just did not know that if it was normal to feel baby kick so much. But I was happy too that she is active after I consulted on ivillage forum. All women were great help. At times I believe getting opinions is great idea. It is great help. And I would suggest ivillage the best in it. It made me think in positive way that it is sign of active and healthy baby.

Apart from that that day came when I had my test I mean angiography, and I was so relaxed that I could not believe it myself. We went and I had to get drops four times in gap of 15 minutes, and I told them I was pregnant so that they are careful in every possible way. And they were and my test was done by injecting the die and the injection was safe as I called my gynecologist before I got the injection and she said it was perfectly fine. And then some pictures were taken and I was done in two for whole procedure.

So it did not seem much of a problem but yes as I had vision blurred in right eye so I was concerned that what would the doctor say. And the meeting with my doctor was after four days and also, I was looking forward for ultra sound as I wanted to be sure that the baby was doing good. Doctor examination really counted and I wanted to just get over it as I was a worry back in my head and I was tired of thinking over it.

Anyway, the worrying part was over and I shopped for baby stuff. It was simply enjoyable. Yes, the nerves started to feel tense as baby is great responsibility but then I thought over it and relaxed that the more I will worry the more things will get complicated and I would in the end get really frustrated and would not enjoy the parent hood. It is important that one enjoys every thing that life gives him/her. And they should be happy and make things positive from there end and rest is up to God that whatever is written in for the one.

Thus, the week ended off well and I saw myself really big and getting fat now. But it was good feeling as the baby is healthy and thats what is most important. Also, the vomits were the worst in this week as it seemed that any moment i would pass out. it was reallt frustrating and i just did not know how to handle all this. but then i had no way out so went on with the way it was leading me. i have been taking mucane syrup and yes vitamins of seven-seas, pegnovet tablets, and caltrate 600 as doctor had told me too.

The week started off not that well as I was worried of my eyes. As I mentioned before as well in order to stay out of tension just thought to get myself buy with baby shopping. My hubby was equally excited and we decided to get the crib first and I went looking around many many shops that which place would be the best to buy for our little one.

All the I kept thinking one thing that by Grace Of God everything has been very good and I am really thankful to God but I just have this slight fear that it does not change and this peace always stays in our life and that God keeps helping us always in every way.

Also, sleeping position has been little difficult as I have grown, as my tummy is big and also the hips. So far I have gained 11 pounds 5kgs that makes it. My doctor before was worried but as long as I am gaining by even 2kgs a month she is happy. Also I thought to search over Internet regarding regarding sleeping position and sex during second trimester and I found a good piece of article:

“Sleep Positions and Sex”

“You’re feeling great now and probably don’t spend much time thinking about what you can’t do. This energetic time is all about what you can do, especially if it seemed like you were limited by your body last trimester. So, in the spirit of keeping positive, here are some things you can do to help yourself this trimester.

Sleep positions matter

Okay, I know you’ve heard that sleep positioning is important during pregnancy. We even discussed it in the last chapter. If you didn’t heed my advice then, be sure to do so now. The time has come; sleep on your left side with pillow support. If you wake up on lying on your belly, flip your self back over and try again. You need to keep your blood flowing and this position is heart (and all over circulation) happy.

Sex

That’s what got you here, but it’s not just a means to an end. Your sex life can be as fulfilling now as it was before you even thought about making this baby. Maybe more fulfilling, now that the pressures of contraception and/or conception no longer apply. Add to that the fact that you’ve got energy to burn and maybe even an increased sex drive and you have a lot to look forward to in the area of sexuality.
A small percentage of expectant parents are uncomfortable with sexual intimacy during pregnancy. The primary reason for this is fear of hurting the baby. Unless you’ve been told otherwise (due to spotting or cramping), sex is perfectly safe for you, your spouse, and your baby. Not only is it safe, it is recommended. Why? Happy couples make happy parents. Happy parents make happy babies.
Some fathers-to-be have admitted that they are hesitant to have sex with their pregnant partners because they don’t want to disturb the baby (the noise, the movement, etc.). Baby will not be disturbed, I assure them and I now assure you.
For some couples, the issue is positional. As a women grows, the positions she and her partner used to enjoy may become less than ideal. Well, if variety is the spice of life, this is the time to spice things up a little. While the missionary position (face to face with woman on bottom) may leave a pregnant mom a little breathless (and not in a good way), other positions are bound to be more comfortable and will keep love life interesting.
Sexual intimacy is a very important part of a fulfilling life, even during pregnancy. Now more than ever you want to know how cherished you are, how desirable, how loved and appreciated.”

And this was great reading at least it helped a lot. The shopping part through out has been great till now but I have not bought any clothes as yet as I have to take care of my health too till I am done with my eyes test. And that day is not so far away either. But I am worried too.

Hey! My birthday is also coming up and I really have strong belief in occasions. It is at times important to have these occasions and let the beloved ones know that they are loved and there presence is very precious. It is not important to have big celebration but to just be with loved ones and have good time. In daily routine one does not see special times with them or get to know that how special they are and these birthdays or anniversary or valentines gives people chance to show next person their importance to higher extent. to be honest I have always looked forward that who remembers my birthday and thats what I look forward to because gifts are not important just remembering is important. And I am not fan of gifts as I do not like people spending on my birthday.

Anyway, this week got over nicely and have things coming up next week, hoping for best.

The first day started on my vacations and till second last I was on trip. And the trip was wonderful. We roamed around in the beauty of nature and it was fabulous to be in forests and walk and take pictures and capture beauty of all kinds. The flowers, birds and butterflies were extremely beautiful. I took pictures as much as I could and I remember my hubby was as lost in the beauty as I was. We enjoyed every moment of peace. It was good and relaxing to be with your partner 24/7 with no work and tension and just spending time totally free from everything. We played board games and enjoyed whole night. We had become kids, we fought over the game and it was fun being up all night and playing. The weather was cold a bit at night and we were completely lost in the wonderful surroundings.

It was not that we only roamed around at times we preferred being at home, the apartment we were living in and just sleep and relax. The whole concept of the vacation was to relax. Relaxation was very important for us. It was not that we were not having good time at home but at times it is good to be away from and chill and know no one, and it makes one feel great too.

We did not eat much from out in fact only thrice that was because I was pregnant and I did not want to be ill. Usually eating out and all can cause hepatitis and it is very important to be very careful. In pregnancy I believe one easily catches some disease as body becomes sensitive and also it is two lives that you have to take care of. Mother has to take care of so many things because her one mistake can lead to problems for her baby and she will be responsible for it if she is careless.

Trip was over and when I came back it was second last day of this week. I reached early morning at 12:30 am and that day in morning I had to go to my eye doctor as my right eye was troubling in vision. I was not the one who noticed honestly I did not feel it but my hubby observation was really good and he said the way I watch television it could be that my eye-sight was weak. I went to doctor and through all dilation and minor test and he said I have problem in my retina of right eye and it pricked my heart because eyes are most important part and that I did not want to go through angiography because it scared me in pregnancy. But doctor assured that it would not affect so I am ready and in a week all most I will be going through it. And I have decided to have ultra sound after four days of this test to be assured of baby growth. By Grace of God everything seemed fine and not that bad because I was so worried on hearing it but doctor did not say something serious thats why I was okay, but the test that was asked to be done I wanted it after pregnancy but he said that only test I should do now and rest surgery if needed would be later.

I am hoping for good. Though I will say no matter how hard I am trying to let go it from my mind but I cant, it is there in back of my mind and my all expectations from God that He will help. This week ended and next to next week another though day is waiting up for me.

This week started off well. I was simply excited as I had my ultra sound for the gender and to know the growth of the baby. My husband was equally excited. Honestly we have been waiting a lot as we wanted to start imagining who it would be and being clear about gender is a lot good as one divides the happiness in two portions and becomes well prepared.

The very first day in this week I remember we had food from out and that time I knew I was not hungry but I still had it for the baby, that it would not be good for the baby if I do not take food for long. So I had it and I remember I was not feeling good after that and then that night I had thrown up badly and rite after I felt totally empty and I remember I was just craving for something sweet and I opted for mango. It was so great having fruit has my throat had been burning and so did my eyes and my nose. I just wanted that baby stays full and does not feel that mama has not eaten anything. And I was really excited because the next day I had my ultra sound. Also, I remember chatting up on “ivillage” and getting to know about throwing up problems in the second trimester. And it had really helped me in certain things.
I remember how excited we were that Monday that we were to know about the gender of our baby. I remember how long me and my hubby waited for the scan and our luck was that, day doctor was late and we were so on time but we waited for two hours and finally she came. My hubby thought it was a boy but he wanted a girl and so did I but I knew it was a girl. And when I went in scan room and laid and me and my hubby was so excited to know about the baby. Well the lady said that it was baby girl and we both were really happy.

I remember I was really worried of the fact that my weight was not that gained and everyone talked about it that how come I am 20 weeks and my stomach is not that prominent. The very first thing I asked was this that “is the baby doing well? Is her growth normal?” and my doctor was like that she is very happy with the growth of our baby and that if vomits have not stopped yet then I might be one of those who come in labor and are throwing up and she said it happens to few mothers and there Is not any rule set. Well by Grace of God everything was great and we left very happy.

Everyone was very happy when we announced to them it was a baby girl and it was so exciting that God gifted us with what was best for us. My mother wanted that I have a baby boy first because she thought baby girls come without asking but baby boys come after a lot of prayers. And on her she was right but for me both are important and who ever comes first is all up to God and I did not mind it.

The other day I was reading articles regarding 20th week this was really:

What your baby’s up to

“Over the last four weeks, your baby has grown an incredible amount, and has just about quadrupled his weight. He’s big enough that you should be feeling “fluttering” or “quickening” quite regularly now. In fact, from his movements you may be able to tell if your baby is awake or asleep. Your baby is anywhere from 25 - 28 cm or 6.5 inches long and weighs 285-300 grams or 10-11 ounces.
Your baby has started to practice breathing motions, even though his lungs are not yet mature enough to breathe enough air to allow him to survive outside your body. Lanugo (the fine hair) covers your baby’s whole body, and hair on the scalp is beginning to grow. Your baby’s ears are fully functional now and he enjoys the sound of uterine noise. All the organs and structures of your baby are formed and your baby is now entering a period of simple growth. And you may be getting ready to be a grandma already: If your baby is a girl, her uterus is beginning to develop!

Well, this week I had vomits as well also it was really busy as on the last day I was going to travel for my one week vacation and I had to pack and it was so much of a work as we were going to stay on mountains and we were to take everything possible needed as I was pregnant as well and I had to be very careful that I don’t have upset stomach. My hubby was more concerned than I was. The packing was done and we slept late and enjoyed watching movie that night. We were excited about the trip and the next was going to be great as we were to travel and enjoy the week.

This week gave off a good start. I was feeling energetic and fully new. The only hope I had this week too was not throwing up in any way. I was just not prepared for it. I was praying that week would be without a single vomit.

I have not been able to eat meat and chicken so much in my pregnancy, when me and my husband went out to eat I felt like eating stake, and it was a bad craving. I remember being lost in my thinking that whether to have it or not as I always ended up throwing all out usually. But then I decided to go for it as I was sure it would not be as cooked meat at home, as home made usually gives out smell which made me really sick from before and I never enjoyed eating it later. So, when it came I prayed and took a bite and it did not smell and I ate it slowly so that it gets time to be digested properly. I enjoyed eating it and the first thing I did after having it was taking “mucane syrup” as my doctor said that I was supposed to take it every time I had food. And after I returned from dinner and I had a mango so that my meat taste turns into something sweet and fruits are the best part of my diet that I enjoy a lot.
The other day I was reading on the website pregnancy-baby-gaga and came across the article regarding 19th week which said:

Fetal development in pregnancy week 19:
“fetus in fifth month Your amazing little baby is now around 10 inches in length! If this seems a bit shocking, you’ll be relieved to know they’ve not actually grown over 3 inches, but that their little legs are now straight enough to be measured. This is when doctors begin measuring fetal growth from head to toe, (no longer “crown to rump” or CR). Lanugo (little hairs) covers their whole body now, trapping that charming cheese-like vernix caseosa (see week 18) to the surface to the skin. This week your lil’ fetus will start on an appetizing diet of amniotic fluid which they are now capable of swallowing, digesting, and passing the fluid as far as their tiny “large” intestines. Fortunately for you, this nice little lump of baby-poop won’t be coming out while they’re still in your womb. Some time shortly after they’re born, this fun lump will become the first in a long line of baby poops. (What finally comes out— commonly known as “meconium” to the science world, will be black and sticky, and you’ll be very glad it happens only once!)”

Well while reading this I noticed that my tummy was so visible now. I would say my tummy is growing and till now have not put on much fat over other parts of the body. Till now I have gained 6 kg which make it round about 13 pounds. Which I really don’t know that is a normal gain or not in 5 months.
I remember that when I threw up again that night I was very upset that why are my vomits not stopping and that is it really normal or not. I was worried that what if I leave for trip and there I am unable to enjoy because of it and I really did not want it. I again got it a day after and I was happy that my ultrasound was going to be soon that at least I will know that baby is doing good. Honestly, through out I have been waiting for this ultrasound that I will know sex of the baby but now I was not feeling that excitement as I was just concerned that the baby growth is perfect according to it’s weeks. And I have been thinking and thinking over it a lot. And just waiting to have this ultra sound and be relaxed.

The best thing was baby kicks, I remember I was deep asleep and I suddenly woke up in tension that something fell on my tummy but it was the little one kicking inside and I remember my husband woke up and asked what happened and told him that I was getting hard kicks. And he had his hand on my tummy but it was hard for him to feel but he tried and felt very light kick as he had to feel from outside. I remember these my hubby waking up at nights and shifting me in center if I am on edge of the bed. Even if we would be deep asleep, he will know and in morning when we will be up I asked him how he knew, and I knew it is true love and care he holds for me.
And I am really thankful to God for this.

Thus, the week ended off well. And I am hoping that by Grace Of God everything will be good in the ultra sound and I would definitely post it here and will keep you all updated.

It felt too good to be in 18th week. It was amazing to feel kicks also that soon I will be knowing about the sex of our baby. And then we would call him/her by name.
These thoughts were making me more excited. And so I knew now that its just two more weeks to go.

There was one thing that was really not up to the mark and that was the vomits. Now I felt lost that why are they not stopping. When would I get the peace and just prayed for it to stop as soon as possible. I remember talking to my dad and he telling me that why was I getting vomits till now. And he told me to confirm it from my doctor because because of vomits the baby growth should not be affected.
But my doctor said it will be seen in the 20th week ultrasound and I am hoping that by grace of god things will be normal.

Also, everyday I felt babies kicks and it was very exciting. Also, we have started doing stuff for the trip soon we will be taking. I am excited it would be good to have this trip.

I finally thought to ask my doctor to do some thing about my vomits and she suggested me to take mucane syrup in after every meal as it will help to digest the food quicker. Well yes I will it did help but still I had vomits but felt better than before after having it. So therefore I will suggest the moms to be to take it regularly as it would bring in difference for sure.

The baby expert magazine says about this week:

“you might feel baby kicking or sudden fluttering in your tummy. Your baby is now 18cm long. You join an antenatal class to help you prepare for the birth. And remember to do pelvic floor exercises. Tense the muscles, as if to stop weeing mid-flow then release.”

I think it is good to get yourself indulge in some sort of exercise as it would for sure help the baby grow better also delivery would be easier. This is what everyone says. But then I will say that it is not 100% that it would for everyone in same
way, as if I see to my vomits I am now sick of hearing that soon it will stop but that day has not come yet. Everyone usually gets over with vomits my 13th week. But I am now entering 19th in two days but for me there is no change. And I desperately want to feel that how is it to live without throwing up and eat everything.

While searching I came across barycentre’s website saying this about 18th week:

“How your baby’s growing:”

“Head to rump, your baby is about 5 1/2 inches long (about the length of a bell pepper) and he weighs almost 7 ounces. He’s busy flexing his arms and legs — movements that you’ll start noticing more and more in the weeks ahead. His blood vessels are visible through his thin skin, and his ears are now in their final position, although they’re still standing out from his head a bit. A protective covering of myelin is beginning to form around his nerves, a process that will continue for a year after he’s born. If you’re having a girl, her uterus and fallopian tubes are formed and in place. If you’re having a boy, his genitals are noticeable now, but he may hide them from you during an ultrasound.
How your life’s changing:
Hungry? An increase in appetite is pretty common about now. Make it count by choosing meals and snacks that are rich in nutrients instead of empty calories (chips, French fries, candy, and other sweets). Bigger, more comfortable clothes are a must now as your appetite and waistline grow.

Your cardiovascular system is undergoing dramatic changes, and during this trimester your blood pressure will probably be lower than usual. Don’t spring up too fast from a lying or sitting position or you might feel a little dizzy.

From now on, when you do lie down, it’s best to lie on your side — or at least partly tilted to one side. (When you lie flat on your back, your uterus can compress a major vein, leading to decreased blood return to your heart.) Try placing a pillow behind you or under your hip or upper leg for comfort.

If you haven’t already had a second-trimester ultrasound, you’ll probably have one soon. This painless procedure helps your practitioner check how your baby’s growing, screen for certain birth defects, check the placenta and umbilical cord, determine whether the due date you’re working with is accurate, and see how many babies you’re carrying. During the exam, you might see your baby moving around or sucking his thumb. Bring your partner along, and be sure to ask for a printout for your baby’s first photo album!”

This week my husband really helped a lot. I had back pain again and it was really bad and he massaged and my feet really hurted too and he was the one to massage them every time I had pain. And every time I looked into his eyes I just knew that what he might going through by seeing me to grow so big day by day but he always said sweetheart don’t worry you are pregnant don’t be bothered about this afterwards you will come back in shape. And every time he relaxed me I felt so happy to have such supporting partner by Grace of God. Thus, this week ended off well.

“Finally week 17” was the first thought in my head I remember. I was so excited that soon I will feel baby kicking, and my vomits would not be the same, and that three weeks left to know whether we will be having a girl or a boy. Thoughts n thoughts were rushing inside my head. And I just started off in best energy.

I remember I started searching that when does baby kick usually. And while I found few women sharing their experience that during 17th week they felt the kicks. And this raise my excitement more and more. For me I wanted to really feel it because I wanted to know that he/she is fine inside me. I was hoping for the best in every aspect and yes I was praying all the time that my hubby is with me when our baby kicks because I knew that he would be more excited than I could be. And he really wanted to feel our child and I could see in his eyes,the fatherly touch.

The most exciting part was my hubby said that why not we go for a short trip somewhere and chill. And I was so so so excited and had all the plans in my head because I really wanted to go with him and enjoy. We decided and the next day everything was done. And we would be going in my 6th month.

I remember reading magazine “baby and pregnancy” and the 17th week said:

“fine eyebrows and eyelashes start to develop, as well as hair on his head. His eyelids will stay closed for most of the second trimester. He measures about 16.5 cm and you could hold him in your palm. You may find yourself blooming and full of energy why not organize mini-break with your partner before baby arrives?”

And after reading this I was amazed that we already had planed about a trip. And I felt glad too that it is safe to go on trip as people do worry you a lot with different stories and I would get confused but thank God my husband stand in between me and negative vibes and my husband is the reason that I am so happy and stress free by Grace of God.

The week went so relaxed and good. I have been happy throughout by Grace of God. I have just been praying that the baby grows up well and is healthy. This week ended off well. I remember in this week I saw the documentary about pregnancy on national geographic “In The Womb” and it was so exciting watching it and getting to know how baby reacts in different environment and the best part was seeing my hubby enjoying it too. And I felt so good to see his involvement in the pregnancy. I must say my husband has done so much throughout in these 17 weeks and if he would not have kept me on his eyes I would have not been so happy. He kept me away from every sort of stress.

Well, the last day was the most special for me, thats because I felt the baby kick inside me. Honestly on first kick I got feared and I second I realized that the baby kicked and then I called my hubby but he had kicked the second time, but I made my hubby sit with me and hands on my tummy to feel the kick and he was so happy and excited. And the baby kicked and he felt it. It was my biggest wish that my hubby feels the first kick. Thus,the week ended happily like the other weeks.

My first thought in the morning was that my 16th week hopefully is great. My vomits really have been disturbing as at times my ears, nose and eyes got burnt and it took 30 minutes for it to get normal. This week with friends and family had great time.

My doctor told me that sleeping on left side is best for the growth of the baby. The theory behind it is that it helps baby breath properly and it gets all the nutritions in right proportion. I searched on Internet about this and I found two articles,

“What’s the best sleep position during pregnancy?”

“Jodi Mindell, pediatric sleep expert
Although there’s no real harm in sleeping on your right side, lying on your left side is actually good for you and your baby: It improves the flow of blood and nutrients to the placenta and it helps your kidneys efficiently eliminate waste products and fluids from your body. That, in turn, reduces swelling in your ankles, feet, and hands. If you train yourself to sleep on your left side early on, you’ll have an easier time falling asleep when your belly is bulging later.

During the second half of pregnancy, avoid sleeping on your back, a position that puts the full weight of your uterus on your spine, back muscles, intestines, and the inferior vena cava (the vein that transports blood from your lower body to the heart). Back-sleeping can also put you at risk for backaches and hemorrhoids, inefficient digestion, and impaired breathing and circulation. Lying on your back in the second and third trimester can also cause changes in blood pressure. For some women, it can cause a drop in blood pressure that can make them feel dizzy; for others, it can cause an unwanted increase in blood pressure.”

source:www.babycenter.com/404_whats-the-best-sleep-position-during-pregnancy_7608.bc

And I found another article:

“sleeping position during pregnancy”

“During pregnancy you may find yourself wrestling in bed trying to get comfortable before falling asleep. Unfortunately, your regular sleep positions may no longer work for you during pregnancy. There are a number of reasons that cause this new discomfort, but there are some positions that you can try that may help you get your much needed rest.

Why am I so uncomfortable in my normal positions?
When you are pregnant your body goes through a variety of changes. These changes tend to disrupt your usual peaceful slumber. Reasons may include:

Increased size of abdomen
Back pain
Heartburn
Shortness of breath
Insomnia

What are the best sleep positions?
The best sleep position during pregnancy is “SOS” (sleep on side). Even better is to sleep on your left side. Sleeping on your left side will increase the amount of blood and nutrients that reach the placenta and your baby. Keep your legs and knees bent and a pillow between your legs.

If you find that you are having problems with back pain, use the “SOS” position and try placing a pillow under your abdomen as well.

If you are experiencing heartburn during the night, you may want to try propping your upper body with pillows.In late pregnancy you may experience shortness of breath; try lying on your side or propped up with pillows.

These suggestions may not sound completely comfortable, especially if you are used to sleeping on your back or stomach, but try them out and you may find that they work. Keep in mind that you may not stay in one position all night and rotating positions is fine.

What positions should I avoid?

Sleeping on your back: This can cause problems with backaches, breathing, digestive system, hemorrhoids, low blood pressure and decrease in circulation to your heart and your baby. This is a result of your abdomen resting on your intestines and major blood vessels (the aorta and vena cava).

Sleeping on your stomach: When you are farther along in your pregnancy, your abdomen undergoes physical changes and makes it more difficult for you to lay on your stomach.”

source: www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/sleepingpositions.html

Everything in this week was good. My husband and me had loads of fun with friends and family. We went out for dinner, and celebrated the 1st may holiday at home watching television and sleeping. Everything was great. Yes this week I was very careful with my diet as well that I do not stuff myself too much and vomit. Also, the most adorable thing was that my hubby told me that I start sleeping on right side and he will sleep on left side as I am would not sleep without hugging him and for that we will have to switch sides. Seeing his this care just makes me the luckiest girl on earth. I thank God more every time that He has really blessed me. Husbands are not at all ignorant if wife is handling the pregnancy pressure in a rite manner. And this is what I am learning now. All that I heard about husbands is experience of those maybe who have not been able to take the pregnancy blues on a track,and husbands might get irritated. I must say that there few who are really not good husbands or wife but women really need to control their emotions to an extent.

All days went well. And on last day I was reading the babyexpert magazine and in 16th week it said:

“your baby toes and fingers are fully formed. He/she is swallowing tiny amounts of amniotic fluid and passing urine too. She measures 14cm. Also, your breasts may start to produce colostrum, a milk like substance which is rich in nutrients and feeds the baby for the first few days of life. Heartburn can be a problem at this stage, so eat small meals and avoid eating too much of spicy and fried food.”

Thus, I must say this week ended up really good,and very informative for me and my husband. We both are waiting for 3 weeks to pass that we get to know the sex of the baby. We desperately want to know who is growing inside me. My husband simply loves my growing tummy as he can see the baby growing by the Grace of God.